Ah. Girls who have bitch shields.
Never, Never Be Friends With Any Woman Who Let’s-Just-Be-Friends You
Approach Anxiety = Inferiority Complex + Shame
There’s no culture of good
WHEN “BE YOURSELF” DOESNT WORK
Conflating Feelings With Intention
Quit the crap and do what makes you happy
Vague Texts Avoid Rejection

Giving up the Nice Guy mentality does not mean being a rude, borish, prick. It doesn’t mean an end to politeness and civility. It doesn’t mean an end to kindness. It does mean that expecting something in return for something. It does mean ignoring the opinions of others be they good or bad. It does mean my life, my comfort, my time, and my feelings are not given freely but must be purchased and if my price cannot be met then I know the other party doesn’t respect or value me enough to warrant my effort.

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Bloom says:
May 9, 2014 at 10:58 pm
It’s a fine line to walk, the nice guy with a dark side, the bad boy w a heart of gold, both, neither…all of the a ove. Something like that (not helpful I am sure.)

Just a jerky dick, passive aggressive guy, guy who acts nice but is super controlling, needy guy who can’t live wo you, smothering love guy, texting 15 times a day guy, so distant hes never there guy, not fun because hes so moody guy, these versions of good/bad are not good.

I will try to think of a better way to explain it…

TGIF!

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Bloom says:
May 10, 2014 at 1:29 am
Speaking of Audrey Hepburn, watched Roman Holiday tonight.

So who’s telling the truth?

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