Hypergamy and Dating Fears
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Tarnished Sophia says:
July 9, 2013 at 8:29 am
@Ted D
@Swithunus

I’ll clarify a little more:

My FwB is 15 years older than me, has never been married, but has had around 18-20 sexual partners in his life thusfar (more than I think most geeks/nerds get, for sure.) For the last 8 years I’ve been his only lover…he’s rather tired of drama and “female issues”.

On the other hand, he has been my only sexual partner ever. I like that he’s confident without being egotistical, has a great sense of humor, is into comic books/gaming, doesn’t mind when I spoil him with gifts, and has a sexy body (even if it’s a bit pudgy).

Our FwB relationship doesn’t mean that we’re not exclusive…though as I said, I’d be willing to fulfill his fantasy of two women just as he would be willing to fulfill my fantasy of two men. So far, neither of us has done so. I’m not jealous or possessive at all, and his level of jealousy barely warrants a blip on the envy o meter. He could probably still get some ONS with a little effort, but I’m happy being “monogamous”.

Hope this sorts things out a little. People hear the term FwB and tend to think it’s all about having a relationship with lots of casual sex on the side…

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