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James Cameron on Marriage
Why I Am No Longer Using The 10-Point Rating System
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DallasNerd says:
December 13, 2011 at 7:53 am
For starters, women need to realize every man doesn’t want every woman he sees. Its easy to confuse a man that enjoys the company of a woman with a emotionally unavailable man the two are not same, they look and sound the same on the outside but don’t get confused. Women at times easily forget or allow their selves to get swept up in what it could be, and not take it for what it is. I find some women have a tendency to read to much into what is said, missing what was actually said. In this case it states he was upfront and honest from the start explaining what he was looking for. Now we as men believe that’s all that’s needed and we should be good, but as we (and when I say we I mean both men and women) both know women are or can be more emotional reading more into our actions then what was intended. Friendship between a man and woman is delicate, and we tend toe that line very often in these situations which confuses women on our intentions. We state we don’t want anything serious but sending a woman a good morning or good night text sends her a message that she is the first person you thought about this morning and the last you thought of before bed. That’s something a boyfriend would do, which gives her the idea that maybe she can help fix you which implies something is wrong with you. Let me be the first and say it can be done and the two of you remain friends for a long time and it not be an issue, we as men have to be careful not to fall in that boyfriend roll ie the obligation part of it, once you start feeling obligated to do certain things then you need to respond the way a friend would to bring things back to where they should be. I mean you need to be able to talk to her about other women which helps keep things in prospective for her.
The Romantic vs. The Player: Another Man's Woman
The Romantic vs. The Player: Walking Dogs
Warning To The Women Who Date My Friends
Read Fine Print Before Dating My Unemployed Ass
Situationship, Isness, And The Relationship Thesaurus
James Cameron on Marriage
Why I Am No Longer Using The 10-Point Rating System
Reply
DallasNerd says:
December 13, 2011 at 7:53 am
For starters, women need to realize every man doesn’t want every woman he sees. Its easy to confuse a man that enjoys the company of a woman with a emotionally unavailable man the two are not same, they look and sound the same on the outside but don’t get confused. Women at times easily forget or allow their selves to get swept up in what it could be, and not take it for what it is. I find some women have a tendency to read to much into what is said, missing what was actually said. In this case it states he was upfront and honest from the start explaining what he was looking for. Now we as men believe that’s all that’s needed and we should be good, but as we (and when I say we I mean both men and women) both know women are or can be more emotional reading more into our actions then what was intended. Friendship between a man and woman is delicate, and we tend toe that line very often in these situations which confuses women on our intentions. We state we don’t want anything serious but sending a woman a good morning or good night text sends her a message that she is the first person you thought about this morning and the last you thought of before bed. That’s something a boyfriend would do, which gives her the idea that maybe she can help fix you which implies something is wrong with you. Let me be the first and say it can be done and the two of you remain friends for a long time and it not be an issue, we as men have to be careful not to fall in that boyfriend roll ie the obligation part of it, once you start feeling obligated to do certain things then you need to respond the way a friend would to bring things back to where they should be. I mean you need to be able to talk to her about other women which helps keep things in prospective for her.
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