David DeAngelo Undermines Your Progress
Moving Beyond Seduction And "Picking Up" Women
The Way Things Really Are
This Is Not A Fad
Dealing With Bossy And Difficult Women
What If She Resists You?
Debunking Some Dating Myths
Give And Take
What About Long Term Committed Relationships?
Social Status Is Not That Important
It's Not Always Your Fault
Your Best Friend the Hag
Most Damaging PUA Concepts
PUA Methods Create Little Attraction If At All

Ultimately, if you think you put too much effort into it, you probably are. And you are, once again, doing the whole thing wrong. Whenever I was feeling I'm trying too hard, I was, and the female wasn't interested either way (in fact may be neutral at first, putting too heavy effort for >some random broad you don't even know< may turn her completely off), so it was pointless.

January 7, 2011 at 7:14 PM
Rafał said...
Also, keep in mind that you can't control most of her reactions. If you can't control it, no point in worrying it. Worry (hopefully not quite literally) about your reactions to her.

January 7, 2011 at 7:15 PM
Anonymous said...
I shit you not, the best thing that could ever happen to relations between men and women is the legalization of prostitution. Men would be able to approach women from standpoint of genuine desire as opposed to craven desperation. Keeping prostitution illegal amounts to a social government subsidy for women. It's an unfair advantage because it grotesquely inflates the value of sex, which men evidently need more than (you could reasonably argue this point but it would be a tough sell). Men being unable to find a sex partner is a problem for which a solution has existed since the dawn of civilization. It's time to let the free market work it's magic! :p. It'd be good for women too. If they are interested in keeping a man around they are going to need to bring more to the table than just a vagina, it'll build character.

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