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I don’t know. A kiss on the first date might be ok but any sort of intimacy past that seems to set a precedence in a relationship if one was to develop. He read her message loud and clear. She basically said “I’d screw you but it goes against every rule in every book I’ve read and I have to go by the rules” but her body language was probably showing something else…as she consistently whispered “I can’t, I can’t”. You either say no and be firm or just go with it (screw), enjoy it and know that the guy will probably not call you again.

In this case, just him telling her that she must give excellent massages would be a red flag for me. He basically said “let’s get naked” and in a very selfish manner I might add. Enjoy the fact that you had a great evening and leave it at that. He’s not the only attractive, smart, fun guy out there :)

Sex has nothing to do with whether a guy is interested in us or not. But as women..and I mean strong women…we need to try to shut off the “lust” button when we meet a guy because all it does is blinds us from whether the guy is truly decent. (and we wonder why they never call us again? lol) Stay away from intimacy for at least the first few dates so the two of you are forced to have a conversation and actually get to know eachother. You should be able to see the “red flags” with clear vision that way..and not with the “foggy lust glasses” we tend to wear when we are smitten.

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